How to Deal with Lack of Participation?

[paula_smith]

I love the activities on this website, but I was wondering what tips or advice you guys have for students who don't want to participate in icebreakers.  I have a 12 year old who seems too "cool" to play games unless they involve some kind of ball or more competitive activity.  Some of my other students don't seem to enjoy competition though.  Any advice?  THANKS!!

[Mr_Robb]

can't really force your kids to play if they don't want to - they'll resent you for that if you force them to do stuff, although they can learn to appreciate the activities over time.  I'd suggest doing a variety of different activities - some collaborative, some independent, some competitive, some creative or funny, some active -- and that way maybe you can address a variety of learners.   just my 0.02 though.

MR Robb.

[cochese]

yeah, i'd say play the non-threating games.  the more inclusive and low risk the better.  gardner's multiple intelligences anyone?

[scottee]

If that one person is the only one not playing your normal games, you might have them participate by helping you run the game.  Maybe have them keep score, or help be a judge, or whatever they can lend a hand with.  I've found that people who always want to sit out games usually don't feel comfortable with the group, or are afraid of what people will think of them.  Letting them help be "in charge" in one way or another makes them feel a little more special than the others and helps build their confidence with the group.